The other day I discovered an unflushed toilet in the bathroom nearest to the girl’s bedroom. When I had a free moment I pulled Clara aside so I could remind her the importance of flushing the toilet. “Clara, I need you to flush the toilet when you are done using it, okay?” “Yes, daddy. But, I don’t do it because I don’t want to wake up Lydia.” “I understand that, Clara. But I think it will be okay. Unless Lydia is actually sleeping in the bathroom, you can just flush the toilet and she will probably not notice. If you are worried about waking Lydia up from a nap though, you can use the bathroom downstairs.” “But she will still hear.” “She won’t hear.”…